Unwanted attention can be handled by ignoring the person in isolated cases, confronting them in continuous interactions, or seeking help from authorities if it’s persistent and abusive. Unwanted attention from strangers can be managed by ignoring or calmly asking them to repeat themselves. In the workplace, report to HR if the attention continues. If it escalates to stalking, legal action may be required.
How you handle unwanted attention depends on the particular situation. In isolated cases of unwanted attention, ignoring the person or people involved can be effective. Situations of unwanted attention that occur at work or in another place where you need to continuously interact with the person can be dealt with by confronting the person. If the attention is persistent and abusive, you may need to get help from law enforcement or another authority.
Some types of unwanted attention involve strangers making comments to you on the street. Usually, men will say things to women as they walk about about the woman’s appearance or other characteristics. While in some cases the attention is harmless, in others it can make you feel threatened or insecure.
One option is to ignore the person making the comments. Usually when someone says something to a stranger, they want to get his attention. The best way to manage attention is to pretend not to notice. If the comment is so inappropriate that you can’t resist responding, it’s best to keep your cool. In an even tone, ask the person to repeat themselves. Don’t make witty comments against him.
You may receive unwanted attention at work, from a supervisor or co-worker, or in a social setting from an acquaintance. Deal with unwanted attention in the workplace by talking to the person bothering you first. Stay calm and collected when talking to him and explain that you are not interested or that you think his actions are unprofessional. If the attention continues, you should go to an HR manager or supervisor and report it.
If an acquaintance is paying too much attention to you or a friend is asking too much of your time, you may need to divert their phone calls or emails. Do not answer the phone when he calls or call him back. He should understand after a while that you’re not interested. If you were close friends before, you may need to explain to the person why you’re stepping back and no longer interested in spending time with him.
Sometimes unwanted attention can escalate into a stalking situation. If a person keeps calling, texting, or showing up at your home uninvited, you may need to get the authorities involved. In some cases, a restraining order or other legal action may be required. If you feel threatened or frightened by the attention you get from someone, report it immediately.
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