When attending a dinner party, RSVP to the host using the provided return card or number. Confirm your attire and bring a gift, such as wine or high-end candles.
Once you’ve received your invitation and started preparing to attend a dinner party, the first thing you should do is let the host know. There is typically a return card or number to call to RSVP included in the invitation. Answering back is very important, not only because it’s a polite thing to do, but also because it allows the host to determine how many guests will be at the dinner. This way, he can decide on the correct seating arrangement, have place cards printed, and determine the amount of food and drink needed to serve each of his guests.
As you prepare for dinner, it’s a good idea to call the host if you haven’t heard from him since the return postcard was mailed to you, to make sure it has been received. If you called, you might still want to call if the host is a close and personal friend, to see if you can help in any way. He or she might ask you to arrive a little earlier to help greet other guests, for example.
Another thing to consider is your evening attire. The invitation should give you some indication as to whether the event is a black tie or if it’s just a casual get-together. If you are unsure, contact the host to make sure you don’t arrive under or overdressed for the occasion. You should also check your planned wardrobe ahead of time as you get ready to make sure everything is clean and pressed, your shoes are shined, and you have appropriate socks or stockings for the ensemble.
A gift from the host is a must-have whenever you prepare to attend a dinner party. A nice bottle of wine that will complement the evening meal or a good dessert wine is generally appreciated. You’ll need to know the menu to pick something appropriate, and if you’re not a wine aficionado, it’s worth doing a little research before making your purchase.
If you’re unsure about wine, select high-end candle or guest soaps in a neutral color. Fresh flowers are beautiful, but only if they are already arranged and presented in a quality vase. You don’t want the host or hostess to have to worry about flowers while trying to greet other guests.
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