Identifying deal breakers is important in all contexts, from dating to business deals. Offenders can cause problems from the start or emerge later in a relationship, and it’s important to establish clear boundaries and communicate them early on. Personal ads can be useful in identifying potential troublemakers.
The term “disaggregator” is used in a variety of contexts, from the dating world to the halls of finance. In all cases, it is such an important issue that it cannot be overlooked when negotiating an agreement. If the violator is not satisfied, “the deal” is canceled, whether it’s a trip to the Bahamas or a corporate merger. Identifying the offenders is very important as it is a good idea to know where you are willing to negotiate and where you cannot back down.
In some cases, an offender is a problem from the start. For example, someone looking for a new partner might decide they don’t want to date someone who uses drugs, making drugs a disrespect when evaluating someone. Or a company considering a merger might think it was extremely important to keep some employees employed, stipulating that their inclusion in the company’s future is a deal breaker.
In the context of romantic relationships, a deal breaker can also emerge in an established relationship. In some cases, a partner simply gets angry about something that wasn’t an issue before, and in other cases, people ignore an issue in hopes that they can get used to it or reform the other person. As the relationship progresses, the offender can become a bigger and bigger problem, eventually spelling the end of the partnership.
Having business is not a bad thing. By being clear about the things you will and will not tolerate, you will likely be able to establish more successful financial relationships and businesses. If you know, for example, that you can’t stand people who gamble, then you probably shouldn’t date someone who expresses an interest in jogging. You can find many other non-gaming partners in the world instead of constantly fighting with your partner and yourself over the issue. Or, if you’re a vegetarian, you might think about the ramifications of dating someone who eats meat, which might not seem like a major issue at first, but could turn into a disaster.
It’s also a good idea to discuss potential troublemakers with people in the early stages of a relationship. A violator may not show up right away, causing even more disruption when it does emerge in an established relationship. This is a case where personal ads can be extremely useful as they allow you to clearly list your business partners for potential partners right from the start.
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