A unity candle is a set of three candles used in Christian weddings to symbolize the merging of two families. The smaller candles are lit first, then the larger central candle. The ceremony is optional and can be non-religious. The set is often given to the couple as a memento.
A unit candle is actually a set of three candles: two slim tapers and a larger taper or cake candle supported by candle holders. A unity candle is traditionally used in a Christian wedding ceremony to symbolize the merging of two families or personalities into a new one formed in marriage. If the bride and groom opt for a unity candle ceremony, it is usually performed after the exchange of vows but before the official declaration of marriage. The unity candle ceremony is considered optional by most Christian denominations. It must not even have a religious component. Many humanist wedding ceremonies also contain a space for the unity candle affirmation.
During a traditional unity candle ceremony, the bride and groom are invited to a designated area to one side of the altar. The two smaller candles are then lit either by the bride and groom themselves, by the best man and bridesmaid, by the priest, or by the wedding guests through a chain of smaller candles. After the two candles have been lit, the minister can say a few words about the meaning of the unity candle. Commonly the two candles represent the individual personalities or families of the spouses.
When indicated, the bride and groom light the largest central candle together. At this point, the two smaller candles can be blown out to represent the merging of identities or left lit to represent the continuation of individuality through the marriage. Couples should decide which option best suits their outlook before the wedding day arrives. The center candle continues to burn as the couple return to the altar for the final blessing and declaration of marriage.
If an engaged couple decides to have a unity candle ceremony, the wedding coordinator should order candles and candelabras as part of the overall accessory rental. The center unit candle is commonly decorated with a copy of the wedding invitation or a photographic image of the bride and groom. The entire unity candle setup should be placed between the congregation and one side of the altar rail prior to the ceremony. The wedding coordinator should also know who will be responsible for lighting the candles and ensure they have the appropriate lighting supplies. The bride and groom could light their individual candles from an altar candle should a miscommunication arise.
While candlesticks may be considered rental equipment, the unity candle set is usually given to the couple as a personal memento of the ceremony.
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